Hey, I’m Molly!

I’m a former Division II college swimmer, a bona fide hype-woman, author, podcast host, and an ICF Associate Certified Life Coach.

And yet more than a decade ago my love life was a complete disaster.

You can also listen to my story on the podcast.

First Stop, Divorce

I divorced my husband in 2011 after trying to save our marriage when I found out he was cheating on me with numerous women.

Deep down I did not want us to fail as a couple. I wanted to know what I did wrong in our marriage in order to fix it.

Even after numerous conversations and my attempt to restore it all by going to couples therapy by myself, it was evident to me we were never going to make it work.

Honestly, I had to make a choice…

Stay in a hypothetical marriage where I felt like a failure…
or take a chance and choose myself even when the path wasn’t clear.

Next Stop, Facing My Deepest Fear

Being divorced before the age of 30 I felt like I had my whole life in front of me, but I still had to face my deepest fear:

Would I ever find someone to love me?

Before my marriage I was never single. I had never truly dated. Then had to throw myself into the online dating pool of 30-somethings emotionally unavailable men after my divorce.

There had to be a better way because I didn’t want to go right back to where I stared: alone.

I had to take action

So I read as many self help books about relationships as possible. I went to therapy for 13 months to the point where my therapist told me there was nothing more to work on!

You read that right. She kicked me out of therapy!

My “Ah-ha!” Moment

Yet it wasn’t until I met a friend of friend who was a career coach that I noticed a pattern. I saw it first within my career when I was looking for validation at work… and then on my own I discovered that I was doing the same in my love life.

This entire time I was working on myself so I could FIND love… when all I needed to do was work on myself, for myself… to fall in love with me first.

And that was when my reinvention began.

(In 2019, four months before the world shut down, I met my husband and we were married in 2021.)

I’m here today to help women reinvent their love lives!

  • To gain the clarity in what you truly want not only in a partner, but in your love life vision.

  • To overcome self sabotaging behaviors keeping you stuck in dating and relationship patterns.

  • To help you ask for what you deserve and communicate your needs.

  • To help you create an authentic connection with yourself—and then another person—so that love can flourish in your life.

I’ve helped numerous clients work through the following:

  • Figuring out what you really want in a partner and relationship

  • Life after divorce

  • Improving communication in current relationship

  • Setting healthy boundaries

  • Deepening sense of self

  • Developing confidence

  • Dating in your 30’s through 60’s

  • And more!

Ready to dive deep, take action and start connecting for long lasting love?

I have limited spots available for private coaching so that I can deeply focus on you and your love life. Apply for coaching to get started with the process to see if we’re a good fit and if coaching is right for you, right now.

 

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